What Men & Women Really Want?

I’ve asked myself this question, over and over again, “what men really want” ?
Its not about the physical, I doubt it, I think I just want to be happy, very happy, be in a relationship with someone who makes me forget everything in the world, someone who won’t cheat on me, someone who won’t lie to me, someone who’ll understand me. Like Waje said “whether na 1 naira” and like Trey Songz said ” a dollar and a dream” its fine by me, as long as he loves God, he loves me,as long as he’s sincere,as long as he has a dream and prospects.
I asked a couple of people though, and here’s what “they want”

WHAT MEN WANT.

The perfect10. Focused,not lazy, sexy in heels, sexy in a tshirt! Knows where she’s going and doesn’t settle for the bullcrap of “you’re the man”, definitely high on Oprah and a real rugged friend! doesn’t wear NUN looking night dresses! Those types with ugly lace trimmings. Looooool
- Sola Kuti

Trust and friendship,only then can love prevail
-Terry Tha Rapman

Someone who understands, who deeply cares, and someone I know I can count on no matter how much it may hurt them.
- Segun “Aldmoni” Oyefule

 

I want a girl with a good sense of humour, an outspoken girl but not lousy, if you know what i mean, down to earth, spontaneous, she must be presentable, and oh before i forget she must have a well shaped behind. lol

- Taofik Adedeji

Friendship and Trust: Friendship takes care of a lot, the embers that strike at the beginning of a relationship, eventually lose their spark. In the long run, that friendship will matter.

- Joseph Ogbeide

I just want a woman that understands I have to work,as an artist I’m always everywhere so she gotta understand,I hate nagging,I just want an independent woman who holds her own,#shikena
- BigT

WHAT WOMEN WANT

Women want to be able to trust their partner and to feel literally like they r the only girl in the world. Or maybe that’s just me! Women like men they can respect and support, and they want to be respected and supported! And I suppose they want to know that if they give their all to this person, this person would give his all to them!
-Tosyn Bucknor

I just want the man’s attention, a partner I can talk to about everything, his commitment, loyalty and most importantly good sex. And yeah, a relationship with loads of laughter, fun and unavoidably the tears too *big smile*
-LarSanya

I need him to understand my silly self and love me for me.. I’ll be happy to do anything for him.
- Kike Okunade

A man who respects and loves God more than anything else.
- Shamshuez

I want honesty,affection,attention TLC & I want to be his only, I want him to be goodlooking cos I def hav to b sexually attracted to him,In a rltshp, mutual understanding, good sex, and financial benefits
- Gbemi

Honesty, Commitment, Attention, a great lover (in bed- before nko?!), a man who values family (if he values his own, he sure will value yours), a success driven man, a man who not only respects God but one who has a conscience.
-Tosyne Ayotunde

I want a caring, understanding non-nagging, non- whining dude. A guy I don’t have to talk too much before he undastands what I am saying, basically I just want peace of mind in my relationship,lol and I want a guy that would pay 80% for everything
- Kemi Quadri

In a relationship, I want , trust,love,patience,listening ears,helping hands,caring heart and a strong friendship bond
-Nike Adeniji

Communcation as a foundation…. Faithful, Love, understanding, respect, trust as pillars… So FLURT.. *Wink*
- Mobola Akintunde